It’s been 7
months since I first laid my eyes on my daughter and I can say with conviction
that being a mother is not an easy feat. Before Milly, I thought being a mom was just
easy-peasy. Change the diapers, feed them, take care of them and most
especially love them with all your heart. Now that I am a mom, I have
discovered so many things. Things I didn’t know I could do. Being a mom has
transformed me to a new me; I am like a totally different person right now. It’s so difficult to put into words but these
are the things I didn’t know I could do before a became a mom.
1.
I
didn’t know how much I could tolerate myself watching the same cartoons over and
over again. I even keep on humming their “theme songs”. Baby Einstein, Elmo,
Furchester.
2.
I
didn’t know I could suck and hold a snot, smell diapers and poo poos. I even
have the guts to hold every diaper just to check if it’s full or not. :D
3.
I
didn’t know I could hold my pee for more than 6 hours just so I wouldn’t wake
up Milly from sleeping.
4.
I
didn’t know that I could sing and compose songs out of any words that come out
from my mouth.
5.
I
didn’t know that I could appreciate the smell of sour milk, smelly feet and
armpits (of a baby of course J)
6.
I
didn’t know that I have so much energy stored in my body. Ever since I gave
birth, I never had the chance to get a good sleep. I am already lucky if I get
3 hours of sleep every day. Despite the long travel hours from work, I still
feel energize whenever I see Milly.
7.
I
didn’t know that I could deprive myself from buying something but I can splurge
that much if it’s for Milly.
8.
I
didn’t know I could dance in public just to lull Milly to sleep.
9.
I
didn’t know I have a strong body. I’ve always complained carrying my work bag
before, but now that I have Milly, I can carry so many things all at the same
time. 2 big bags on my left and Milly on my right.
And here are
my top 5 realizations
1.
I
didn’t know that I could be a better person. (I hope)
2.
I
didn’t know that I could appreciate the real value of time. Now that I have a
daughter, I always wantto spend each moment with her. Time flies real
fast so I need to make the most out of every minute I spend with her.
3.
I
didn’t know that I could have another source of inspiration other than my husband:
D
4.
I
didn’t know that I could be patient. I’ve always thought that I have a bad
temper, but apparently it turned out that I am actually gentle in so many ways.
5.
And
last but not the least; I didn’t know that I could love in a very unconditional way.
How about
you? What are the things that you have learned and discovered when you became a
mom?
I discovered that I can breastfeed two kids at a time :)
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nhengswonderland.blogspot.com
such a sweet and very true post :)
ReplyDeletetrue that, mommy! relate much ako lalo na sa pagtitipid sa sarili pero pag sa kids na deadma na sa price tags :P
ReplyDeleteI learned to give up lots of things, one would be staying out late watching horror movies. Now, it's children related movies. Our television channel is always on Disney Channel lol.
ReplyDeleteLovely post! As a mom of two now, I didn't realize I could love both my kids as much, equally. I always had that kind of fear before that I might favor one of the other but no, nothing like that. It's amazing how our hearts just grow bigger and bigger for our kids! ♥ :)
ReplyDeleteSalute to wonder moms.. And oh you forgot about the pain we tolerate when we are on labor.. :)
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of moms can very much relate to this! :) So true on the holding of pee but I don't think I've gone as far as 6 hours!
ReplyDeleteI didn't know I can watch Disney 24/7 and no more Walking Dead or Game of Thrones for me.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know I could whistle! Haha. Seriously, when Yuri was newborn baby, I got tired singing and humming lullabies that I just started whistling.
ReplyDeleteagree! i'm smiling all the way reading through your list!
ReplyDeletethis list is so touching.... :) kudos to all mommies! i hope and pray i will experience this soon :)
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